Lanzo's story is very sad. It sounds like sexual desensitization of his wife is leading to toleration, not passion. And his use of the internet (even worse if his W is not fully aware, and who knows if this involves OWs of some sort) to take care of himself is not the way to rebuild a healthy sex life that is part of a new vibrant M.
I'm sorry but my story is not as "sad" as you may think the whole process here is called piecing and we all come here and bare our souls through the inaminaty (sorry if this isn't a real word)of the internet in the hope we can find the path to where we want to be. We all know things do not all happen at once for those that are trying, and we all try different ways and means to get there. Your post on the whole to Doc was very good but for you to suggest that I may be involved with an OW on the internet is bang out of order and I am deeply offended.
Sorry doc but I just thought I had to respond to OT on this piece.
