Thanks, guys. The funniest thing is I have even DB'd my s when he acted like a spoiled brat. Long story short, he offered to take our dog to his house while I house-sat for the wee ones for my S & M. Well he "forgot" the date and I have all three.
So, I "missed his email and calls, didn't call him back", and just answered his call to say he was 5 minutes from home a moment ago. Good time to take a shower rather than sit and wait.
My in-laws are great. I've been lucky enough to call my MIL my best friend. They both think their S has lost his mind and will do anything to help. Mostly I tell them not to say anything at all. If I call there he is called to the phone with "Its your WIFE calling." They make me smile.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.