I agree with the statement about a commonality among all of us here. I, too, do not hate my wife and she has done some horrendous stuff to me, the least of which was filing a false police report. I think it speaks of character and integrity.

However, one must be careful, still, in NOT being a doormat or coming across as weak or running on fear. It behooves one to keep to the high road. It's funny, I think, that, if a WAW pulls all this crap on us as men, it's one thing, but, if we return anything, we are abusive husbands.

No...stick to the high road and move forward. It is a better place to be. You can wake up every morning and look in the mirror and like what you see.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;