Good for you Wifey. Glad he is willing to help you out, hope mine is too. I have to send letters since he doesn't have a computer.
Plus I didn't know that you are in contact with FIL, that's great.
My in-laws don't even call the kids otherwise call me or invite us anywhere. I guess my H told them lies on why he left, so they got too involved and like I said before they are all for the D.
I'm so happy for you. I wrote back to you on my thread, so if you get a chance hop over. You give great advice, and wanted your input on the letter I wrote to my H about bills.