There are a lot of things that we agree on, but some that I guess I just see differently.

As mentioned above, the reason the reason that I try to understand my/our situations so much is to make sure that I am following the right path. I don't want to pull the trigger on actions that may fit another situation, but not my own.

Afterall, prognosis before diagnosis is just bad medicine.

Standing up to my W is kind of what got me here. So in my case, more of that would be more of the same. More of that hasn't worked.

I've asked Orich about his sitch because I don't want to give my 2 cents on what may work while being completely uninformed.

You, Sandy, GIMA and so may others have all been amazing resources for so many of here. I hope that I have not come off as blowing anyone off. If I have I sure haven't meant to.

Just trying to be the best me that I can be.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.