Thanks for the compliment, although I don't feel extraordinary. I just realized that life goes on regardless. In the immortal words of Morgan Freeman "get busy livin' or get busy dyin'".

Ultimately it is how you work on yourself. Regardless of whether or not your W comes back, you work on being the best you that you can be, for you. I think for me, it was about accepting me the way that I am, and making a few minor changes. I think when we are married, sometimes we lose sight of ourselves. I had to find out who I was again. And now that I have, I realize I really like me. I am not perfect, but I can live with that.

What makes you YOU?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..