EB and Orich, You two will crash and burn unless you stop the whining, mind-reading, waiting for her to change, looking for excuses about why she is leaving you, avoiding confrontation, and ignoring the feedback you get here.
Sandi2 gave you guys some great feedback but you two blew it off. You can't change your wives!!!!!!! Stop obsessing over them.
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what pushed her over the edge was that I didn't step up to the plate
Yet you keep avoiding stepping up to the plate. You can't score unless you take a shot.
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Living like this with my wifehusband as barely a friend, not to mention no intimacy even though we are in the same bed, is getting old.
You wife has been living this for years because her husband won't step up. Learn what intimacy means to a woman. What can you do to find a solution to your problem?
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"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." - Martin Luther King Jr.
Handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
