I use all the advice I get and filter it through what I personally know about my W. If I believe a certain course of action would impact negatively on her, I will shy away from it. If the person giving the information has a reason why it would work even if it is negative at first, I would tend to go with it. After 10 years with my W, I have to consider my gut feelings as well as any advice.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
