Utilized what Gucci is peddling (and more) back when I dated, that was quite awhile ago (married 16 years). Never been a NG, so kinda fell into it naturally and through trial and error.
One point I see applying in your situation, certain types of women (small minority) can turn into scary stalkers if you go down the path Gucci has laid out for you. That is following you around in their car while they are intoxicated, calling at all hours, getting hysterical, making huge scenes in public (even so far as to wield firearms and threaten suicide), claiming to be pregnant with your child (don’t think that would work in you sitch), even going so far as to complain to their OM that you treated her so bad he will be inclined to call you and chew you out.
Based on my past experience, I see many warning signs that your WAW could potentially go that direction. It is not at all funny, and you will find yourself very put off by her behavior, that is if she does go off her rocker.
