Not encouraging you to file WCW...nor have I implied that you are a doormat. I just read constant negativity in the posts I've read.

Filing is hell. I am the 'anti-matter' here. I filed on a divorcebusting site. I don't recommend it AT ALL if there is hope...REAL hope. Not implying you but there is too much denial and fear here....too much loss of life and time.

I am only saying what I have said to you live....do what makes YOU happy. If staying like this fulfills you; if you are happy living with this man..if you knew you only had 6 months to live and you could say, yeah...this is where I want to be....then .....

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;