[quoteI haven't confronted her about it yet. I was thinking my options were:

a) do nothing and keep ignoring her/OM
b) now that I know she has another way to communicate, tell her I know about this and don't approve
c) ask This is non-negotiable you will see the phone and disard it. her to show me pre-paid phone/etc.

(c) probably doesn't help since she can always get a different phone.
On the other hand, she may have stopped communicating with him since I have cut off the convenient ways to talk to OM (her car and our house). I suspect I don't know the whole story (again).
] [/quote]

"Wife, One of the things that we need to cover since I won't share my wife is a transparency plan. Ronald Reagan said it best, "Trust but verify." So we both need to be transparent about our cell phones, we will share phone bills and have access to each others phones at all times, I know you have a pay as you go phone which you need to show me right now, we will trade passwords on e-mail accounts to have complete transparency."



Go back to the actions that were getting a positive result.

Last edited by Coach; 09/04/09 02:13 PM.
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