I haven't even read your thread but I can share a bit about me. I've figured out that I lose 5 lbs and a week's worth of forward progress every time I dig into W's facebook activity. When I'm in that mode it is destructive for me and I can almost see her running the other way.
Don't look. It is empowering. Just don't!
Redsoxfan,
I am not going to continue to look. I'm not sure what made me look this last time. I shouldn't have. I felt that crunch in my heart again that I hadn't felt in a while when I looked. Not gonna happen again.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
