I'm doing okay. I've been checking in daily, just haven't posted anything in my thread.
Everything is sort of going as it should I suppose. W's psych evaluation was turned in to the Judge, my attorney can't have a copy but has to go to the Judge's office to review it. I can only imagine what it says - I tend to think it won't say she is a well-adjusted individual.
The only question is how damning it is.
I've been spending a lot of time with my boys, Football season is here so we've been getting involved in that. Also going to the park to toss the football with them.
Our team mascot/cheerleaders recently visited the mall we go to, and I took the kids there to see them.
I've completely dropped the rope in regards to W. I'm not anxious or dreading the approaching trial date. I'm ready for this to end. I'm through with her at this point. I'm ready to start living life for me and the kids. They are my priority over anything else.
I hope W enjoys the choices she has made in life. I have no desire to accept her back at this point. My IC told me to expect her to try and come back. I am no longer interested. Funny how that works.
I've been on a couple of "dates" which basically amount to letting kids play in the park and talking. Nothing physical/sexual or anything like that. Just more of a friendly thing.
I am still checking in here, and will continue posting and helping others with what I've learned.
I'm < 2 weeks from trial at this point.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
