Somebody called me cynical yesterday and proceeded to explain the origins of the word. I think she was right.... I don't know how someone goes from seeing a lawyer one week to looking for retreats the next. But he acknowledges he is screwed up and I am sure you agree .... so I guess I have my answer right there. OW divorced her husband...can it be that he promised to do the same and got cold feet when the lawyer told him how much it woould cost him? There I go being cynical again. Whatever the reasons for his change of heart, I just wish I could be more excited or dare I say it positive about it. Have not said this in a while,,,pulling for you BBJ!!!