Alone, Lost, Unloved & Deserve Better

[peacetoday]

IT isnt easy
I did stand for about 2 years
THis time is a good time to heal
to reflect on ourselves
to do some therapy-to focus on the R with the kids
to set boundries with the mlcer
and/- or to let the M go, and start a friendship with the mlcer if that is available to you
this becomes a time of safety, inner healing, grieving and eventually a new person in us is evolved from the work, the pain the grief
this new rebirth is the gift
we can use this time to change ourselves...maybe the mlcer will notice and want to return maybe not.. no guarantees
some people have sucess in this area
I have not
my xh just M the OW
I have moved on, but im still praying and hoping and believing My xh will step up to the plate as a father to our kids
and one day realize the damage he created-
although I have gotten many great gifts from this journey
truthfully said, I would not change a thing
the only thing I may regret( not sure yet) is that my xh never gave us another chance
I believe with the changes we would have made it better
peace