You OK this morning? Don't beat yourself up too badly.

It happens. It has happened to me recently too.

Regroup.

Catch your breath.

Think of how much you have done differently. Give yourself some credit. Feel confident about the changes that you have made.

Don't forget "I'm sweet, he's a butt!" OK, maybe not the best place for it, but I still think that could be your humorous mantra.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.