Phx,

I just want to clarify something. My W has made a few comments over the past several weeks about hurting me, breaking my heart, expecting me to be mad at her when she leaves, etc...Each time I’ve assured her that I accept this (contacting a lawyer & filling out the D paperwork should have convinced her of that) and that I’m fine. It’s almost as if she doesn’t believe me or is “disappointed” I’m not crushed. Does that make any sense?

I agree with you…no point shoving it down her throat. She’s going to think and believe whatever she wants to. Worrying about it or trying to “convince” her otherwise is just a waste of time and energy.

Now it's time to just enjoy a long weekend with my daughter...my favorite person in the world grin!


Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done