BUT.... BUT.. I hope you are not justifying this as a reason to contact him. It certainly seems like you WANT to find a reason.
Can't you contact the creditors and tell THEM how to get a hold of him? Have you considered that you are enabling him to not be responsible for his part? I would think you could find some creative way to handle this without contact.
If you are bound and determined then do the contact, get to the business at hand and then end the call or email....
You seem to be in a state of panic. Get creative. I will tell you again that chasing and pursuing in any way shape or form will work AGAINST you. It will set you back to square one. Waiting him out this time was very important, but you keep bringing it up again and again. This is no time for weakness.
Your choice, but I would wait it out and find another way or put the creditors on his trail. Tell them that he is supposed to be taking care of this and how to contact him. Enabling him isn't good. Let him step up to the plate without you being his mommy.
