Hi Big John
Hope that you won't mind me snooping in but I just noted that you filed as a "defensive measure". I was wondering what your thoughts were, now that you have?

I do not want a D from my WAH but am considering that the law in Australia is too tough on me - just gives me a year and then a non-fault is granted - that's if H decides to go ahead with it - he hasn't mentioned it for such a long time but has said that he is not coming back.

If I go back to our home in the UK, I can file and name'n'shame him ... plus the process takes longer and, as he says he gets to be "financially disadvantaged" by the outcome. It's only a consideration at the moment, but wondered if you had any advice or whether you would take the same action again ... ??

Thanks for any comments that you can pass across!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09