Oh Nell, I am certainly hearing you. I spent a lot of time trying to work out how H could love me enough to marry me (and he was the pursuer)and have children with me but then treat me so badly. I thought he must have really hated me but decided later that it was really about him and his quest for happiness. It wasn't about me at all. All he really cared about was himself.
H was at the door but did not come in. He would have thought I was at work anyway. S wouldn't have invited him in anyway! I didn't want to see him either as I'm still in my pyjamas!
I have a bbq tonight at a friend's place and I will pop over for a short visit. The rest of the weekend is free. D has some assignments so I'll help her and take it easy for the rest...try to sleep and rest to get rid of the cough...feels like my insides are popping out!!
