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[BigJohn]

People! Help! He's gonna lay the big D papers on me in about an hour = and I'm freaking out!!!! How do I handle it?

I guess I'll have to iron and watch family guy. LOL

Hope,

First off, your H is not going to serve you with D papers himself, you are going to be served by a process server if H did in fact file for D. I understand feeling anxious about receiving D papers, that is perfectly normal under the circumstances, but don't worry yourself sick over the anticipation. If you do get served, handle it as calmly as you can. Do you have any friends or close relatives that you can either visit or who can come to your place if you do get served? Sometimes having someone there with you can help to take the edge off of the initial shock of something like receiving D papers. This is something you may want to consider.

Hang in there Hope. You are in my prayers.