I had this thought today too! Had appt. with my IC, and afterward was just thinking I don't think my wedding vows mean very much to too many people, except to me. OBviously not to H but so many people, inclduing his C have the attitude that oh well, you're not happy, guess you should just trash it. You're right, that's what most people do!
Yeah, what's up with that?
First time I went through this, that was one of the thoughts I kept in my head. I made a commitment. I don't know what YOU'RE (meaning W) thinking, but I commited to the M and I meant it. That's all there is to it.
