NC with wife for one week

[GoBison]

Well had talk with W tonight. Pretty much where I thought it would go. She is still dead set on selling the house. Had divorce papers with and wanted me to fill the out with her as she did not know what all to fill out. Told her not to even bother taking them out of her bag because I would have no part in filling them out. She kept after on what to do with the house and that I should sell it. Told her I don't know would have to talk to a lawyer. I don't even know what can be filled out on those things as far as the house. Her lawyer told her she should get her name off the house. Well duh it is under water in this market. Either I talk to a lawyer next week and decide on what to do with the house then she can send it in or she will just have me served the way it is.

When she asked what I wanted to do with everything I said well nothing that you want as it is work on the M and said but if you want to go through with D then I can't stop you and I am fine to move on this my life no problem. She asked a couple of times and we were sort of laughing and she was getting teary eyed each time.

Then the last 45 minutes we sat around and BS'd like nothing was wrong just sat there talking like life was good. Laughed. She cried when I told her that I would probably have to get rid of the dogs without a house. She wondered if my sister was upset at her. Told her she really doesn't know too much but it really didn't matter as she will probably never see her again or me for that matter once it is done. She got teary eyed again and oh year I will see everyone around.

So now it is time to take her off my credit cards. Pay them off and wait for the papers. I will probably just tell her next week to send them to me and my lawyer will look at them. She actually wanted me to go over them with her so that we could file a joint petition and save money on lawyers. Oh no I don't think so miss spoiled brat not everything is going your way.

She did not think that it was fair that she would have to keep paying on the mortgage while it is up for sale. Wanted to right me a check for her half that was under water yeah that would work as money hasn't been split yet. She makes 2x what I do so didn't mention the possibility of alimony. So tomorrow I am off to get a new cell phone take her off the joint credit card.

She pretty figures we can get this wrapped up in the next 6 weeks as long as I don't argue over too much and everything will be over. I didn't say much just let her know the lawyer would worry about that stuff. I know it won't be as I can already tell from what she was saying that she is wrong with stuff.

So I am at a loss of what to do next. Sit back and let everything roll and the next time I see her it will be to split out things in the house.

It was probably the most relaxed and best talk we have had in a long time even talking about the D papers I had her laughing. I have been dark for two months and no change from her. I don't know what will work if anything.