Hi hhh, I think I meant if there was an OW, it'll be worse. He will be happily slipping into lala land and blaming you for keeping him from happiness.

But since there's probably no OW from your observation, that'sa moot point smile

Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.