Not sure how to get to the bottom of an A, I have been able to access his car via the spare key (he doesn't know I have it). His phone who knows where he hides it, it is hidden really well. So will need to think about this one a bit more.
As for 180's. I have started some with more to come. I am going out next Tuesday night and will be home much later than him, I know he will ask where I have been. Will try to do some more things during the week, you just get a bit tired after being at work all day.
The meals and laundry will be a very hard thing for me to do, so I will start that one slowly, don't think I can go cold turkey but we'll see.
He has often said of late that I am smiling more and he doesn't know why. I don't answer him when he says this.
I certainly didn't take any offence at what you said Gucci and it is good to get a mans perspective on things as well as the girls. I have probably for way too long kept my head in the sand about a lot of things.
Will be going out tonight, he doesn't know but will probably ring me as usual at 8.30pm to see where I am.
Funny you say that about the friends. The last time I saw his friend was about 3 weeks ago, the guy couldn't even look at me to talk to me even when I was speaking to him, he looked everywhere else but at me.
