WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[MrBond]

OOOOh Sandi laid the smackdown.

"If she wants to talk about it at a later date, that will be her initiative."

Nope it will be under YOUR terms. If she wants to talk about it, that's when you don't want to talk about it.

"Now if I can mess with her head a little bit to make her do a "What the heck?", even better."

Dude that's not detaching. Detaching is you don't even care about her so you don't even bother pushing her buttons.

I think I can see you setting yourself up again even with your denials.