(Sandi.....sitting at her computer......hand on chin......shaking her head in disbelief!)
No.......you messed up, so stop saying this is about your kids! You are not being honest with yourself. She didn't even have to set a trap for you, this time. If this is all due to an "upbeat" moment then you better put your guard on those moments or there is no telling what could happen with her.....or any other woman.....if you don't have better control than that. Don't bother to offer all your excuses b/c we have heard them all. Just man-up to the fact you were weak and apparently couldn't help yourself. However.....you better learn to help yourself of you can expect hell for the rest of your life!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
