Hi, I don't know if you can relate to this, but my H was acting less interested, and like he didn't care, etc. We had many round and rounds about it. What came out was that my getting upset turned him off & it took him a few days to warm up (he needs an emotional connection), he feels like whatever he does doesn't make me happy, he felt controlled by me, he felt pressured by me. He felt like he couldn't say no b/c I would cry.
Furthermore, I was initiating most of the time b/c I was afraid that if I didn't, it would never happen. That's not true. I just wasn't giving him the CHANCE to initiate b/c I was always in his pants! If you back off, it might give him the opportunity to stir up some of his desires. Lookin' good and smelling good help, take care of yourself.
And Oh, I have a secret: Even if you don't believe it, walk around thinking in your head that you are sexy, beautiful, and HOT. Somehow that sends vibes. Then believe it.
