Cas - I lurked over in your sitch today. Glad your boss was smart enough to give you the day at home.
H-kitty has been following me. I made my default 'easy' supper tonight - spaghetti, and when it was ready, I took mine out on the deck to eat. H not only followed me, but pulled up a chair, sat with me while we ate, chatted about this and that, showed me a game on his i-phone, etc.
We talked about wanting to sit higher on the deck so we could see the water better. We paced out an area where a platform could be built, then I said that really, it would be easier to just get a pub table and chairs. He really liked that idea. Maybe once I have a few paychecks under my belt, I'll surprise him by having a set 'appear' on the deck.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
