H with 1foot out the door...LONG

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Hi Gina,

My W and I are going to Retro in about 43 days. Sara, a person who works with Retro and posts on this BB quite frequently, suggested to me that I lay low and play it cool until Retro arrives. Read what Sara wrote in my thread when you get the chance. You don't want to do anything that can negatively impact your chances at Retro. Many people on this BB would love the opportunity for their walk-aways to attend with them. Consider yourself fortunate. So in the meantime, just be patient and GAL. It's only two weeks away for you!

I understand what you're going through...my W said she loved me just four weeks ago and wanted to work on things...then she just shut down on me. Focus on yourself and your kids. Much of my GALing includes doing fun stuff with my kids. We've done Disney, Sea World, Kennedy Space Center, and the beach just to name a few. Be strong, confident, and happy...it will make you more attractive to your H. Most importantly...be patient. You can do it.

-LFH