HI L R, I did the same thing you did today LR! I am going to be on an overnight retreat for work next Thurs. & Fri. & I asked H if he could stay with the dogs. THe kennel is really expensive though esp. for both of them, but EN you have a point. But it really does me a favor, and they are partly his responsibility too.
And similarly, H left a bunch of clothes, tools, all kinds of stuff here too - it's been 5 months now! I am sick of looking at it, but I was too heartbroken to deal with it. I like the box solution. WHy should I have to look at his crap all the time?
And I think we must be on the same wavelength LR, about your comment "my chiro asked me this morning why it has become so popular for WAS these day, and I said because everything has become throw away able now so marriages/relationships can be dumped without question!"
I had this thought today too! Had appt. with my IC, and afterward was just thinking I don't think my wedding vows mean very much to too many people, except to me. OBviously not to H but so many people, inclduing his C have the attitude that oh well, you're not happy, guess you should just trash it. You're right, that's what most people do!
I'll stop ranting now! :-) But kind of amazing that we had 3 similar experiences today. Interesting! Sounds like you are doing great, taking care of yourself, keeping busy, keep it up. Here in the states it will be Labor Day weekend & I am trying to fill it up w stuff to do so I don't get down over the 3 day wkend. I'm sure I'll be checking in though! Hope you both get some rest. LFA
