Thanks for the big hug. My H did have an affair too before we were married but it made no difference as we living together then. I found out about it when I was 7 1/2 months pregnant with my dd when the OW came to my home with a very ponographic sounding letter (meant to hurt me of course) about their affair. H says that they never went all the way but OW claimed that he wanted to. Oh well, it doesn't matter now but it was really hard to deal with it then as it was a physical affair and H is supposed to be the LD one! Thats in the past now so it really doesn't come in the picture anymore. H is really good to me now except for the LD which isn't really his fault. Other than that I have no complains. H hates relationship talks so its unlikely that I will take that route. LH
My H did have an affair too before we were married but it made no difference as we living together then. I found out about it when I was 7 1/2 months pregnant with my dd when the OW came to my home with a very ponographic sounding letter (meant to hurt me of course) about their affair. H says that they never went all the way but OW claimed that he wanted to. Oh well, it doesn't matter now but it was really hard to deal with it then as it was a physical affair and H is supposed to be the LD one! Thats in the past now so it really doesn't come in the picture anymore. H is really good to me now except for the LD which isn't really his fault. Other than that I have no complains. H hates relationship talks so its unlikely that I will take that route.
