I have to agree w/you that by focusing on what I need for me is having an effect on GF. This is something I have to do regardless of what happens in this relationship.
The past few months have been a bit trying and I've ended up putting what I want on the back burner. So, now it is clearly up to me to continue to have a life and do the things that I'm interested in or else I'll fall back into the old habits and traps that didn't work out so well w/my M.
If I take care of what I need for me, the ability to find a good place to meet in the middle will be easy to do. Another example was last night as she was the one who was affectionate and wanted to kiss, touch, etc.
So, her interest is there, but I have to make sure to keep on "Having a Life" of my own.
Thanks again for the reminder and feedback, my friend.
