Yes, he's read the book. I see us in another year in many of the stories in the book; he doesn't see that it has anything to do with our situation. He's trying BUT not doing anything. We don't have sex because "I" don't do anything about it. WE had sex 3 times last week...funny, I was only there for 1 time:( He's willing to do the counseling BUT I'm out of gas on this whole situation.