Those are very wise words. You are right. Thank you for reminding me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
My guess is that she is. She used to talk about taking trips when she was with OM before. Now he is on her FB page all of a sudden and all of a sudden she is taking trips again.
I just kind of put 2 and 2 together.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Sorry you are here AGAIN but It's the Same question you asked in February of this year....LITERALLY. You got a variety of answers then, as you will now, but back then you chose to do the mostly angry thing, under the guise of self righteousness, and morality and here you are again...asking the same question..[color:#CC0000].DETACHMENT is your answer, but you hate it so much you won't do it so you go around in circles like this. And you will keep on doing so forever b/c you resist that which does not comfort you...((and for the record, so what if the OM is on her fb?? His pic has his wife on it!! Hello?? Ignore this b/c you should not even know it! Self inflicted pain is something you do well. Stop it.)) j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I'm not going to say anything to his wife I decided. I am just going to keep doing my own thing.
Tonight is the first night I haven't had one or both of my kids in almost 2 weeks. I miss them already. I sure enjoy having them around.
Kev, what are you doing for you???
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
TGIF!! Hmm... what am I going to do? Well, I am going to go to an AA meeting tonight. Maybe I will go to 2 of them. I am going to a friends house tomorrow night for a house warming. Sunday I have mass and then I get my kids back on Sunday night.
I'm not sure what I am going to do during the day tomorrow and Sunday.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I haven't even read your thread but I can share a bit about me. I've figured out that I lose 5 lbs and a week's worth of forward progress every time I dig into W's facebook activity. When I'm in that mode it is destructive for me and I can almost see her running the other way.
Don't look. It is empowering. Just don't!
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Sorry you are here AGAIN but It's the Same question you asked in February of this year....LITERALLY. You got a variety of answers then, as you will now, but back then you chose to do the mostly angry thing, under the guise of self righteousness, and morality and here you are again...asking the same question
25, I am not doing the angry thing or self righteousness thing this time. I am handling things differently now than I used to.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
