Even though H, as it turns out, paid someone to coach him, it didn't go well for him. The times when I thought he would know better than to add material that would obviously hurt his case, he just kept talking.
Afterwards he sort of stomped off, angry & shaken. I just left him alone.
Two hours later, he calls to tell me he's a huge 'F'up & regrets what's happening. "The happier you are, the more unhappy I get."
An hour after that, see's that dam* black car here & tells me he want to come on Sunday & pick up his dishes, a car & some other items left here.
Sunday, OW drops him off, I tell him I have boxes ready for his stuff & leave him to do his thing.
So, here it comes, "Are you sure you want this? I know I don't. I think we're making a big mistake, I was just going a long with how you're trying to push this thru."
I let him know that I'm not interested in being with someone that can't be faithful to me, show respect or care about the consequences to me or my family. Please take your thing's & go, I have to get out the door in the next hour.
When he's all loaded up, he asks if I'll at least consider what he had to say.
I tell him I'll consider it, however it doesn't look likely.
I continue on w/having my friend over & enjoying my life, noticing H's unhappiness with the situation.
Last night S6 comes home from dinner @ his place & tells me OW let him play with her dog. I let him know today that I've decided against any chance of us getting back together.
Just left me a message saying he wants to talk to me tomorrow about another financial proposal & "Oh, I think I made a poor decision last night."
He can send it to me in writing...I'm done talking.
So predictable......
Sunny
"Hang in there. I'm glad you've got new guy. He sounds like he knows what you need and he's confident enough to handle the complications." @rinserepeat
Hi R&R, I thought so too. His confidence seems to have taken a bit of a dive in the last week I've noticed. His antenna is probably up & he senses potential danger.
