Just one more thing to add. When your H calls you, do not answer his phone call. Act as if you were out and didn't realize he called. As hard as it is, don't do it. Show him you are standing and living on your own.
I have a suspicion that he has OW and that is what your son is not telling you. Although I find it quite immature that your son is playing this game with you. He should either tell you what he knows or not say anything out of respect to you.
Remember...DO NOT talk to your H!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.