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I can't help feeling that way, maybe it's just a part of this whole thing...he didn't even have a lousy 15 minutes for US this entire weekend.



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I'm so sorry you had such a lousy weekend. I wish you were having better luck with your sitch as I am.

Our differing sex drives aside, my H & I get along so well. He doesn't hesitate to run an errand, etc., even after working all day. When I do something for him, he'll say, "You're so good to me." and I'll reply, "It's easy." And it is. I don't mind running out of my way for him or going the extra mile (so to speak). Luckily, he does the same for me.

I know you say you have arguments about this. Have you and your H ever thought about taking to a counselor? Is H against this? Have you read SSM? There's some good tips in there.

Barbara

Domestic Abuse Survivor since 6/26/2002