Thank you Stuck I needed a good earwiggin! I dont/havent contacted my H at all I leave it to him to phone me or contact me, which at the moment seems to be about once a week, I managed to stay calm, confident and mysterious and felt I did well on my last conversation with him.. I can cope most of the time with what he tells me and I dont ask to much about what he is doing as I dont want to know about his new accomadation, interests etc..What throws me is when my S intermates that he knows more than I do and that more doom and gloom is heading my way than H is telling me.. My son has a very matter of fact attitude and well me I have realised I am a panicker.. that is one of my 180's not to panic, and even though I lost it on here I DIDNT phone my H for support.. I just need a good way to deal with my S, as I dont want to upset/offend him but he has to know I dont want to know information from him about his dad. Or is there a better way of saying "im pleased to here dad is doing well, but that is something I am discussing with him so pleased dont get involved" Anyway really I am off to bed now thanks for all the advice much appreciated.
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
