I would like to see you reconcile. It isn't out of reach.
The key is to do what attracts women to men. Observe successful men. The reality I have seen over and over and over with the men that seem to be good with women are the ones who are happy with life, seem to be going somewhere in their life, show an air of confidence, don't pursue women that are backed off and happily show they are going about their life.
Women are attracted to these types of men because they feel secure that he is "emotionally strong" and can handle whatever life throws at him, which triggers her feelings of security that he will protect her. She can't feel those things as much when he is chasing her and pursuing her and showing emotional weakness...
Don't apologize about being a man and promoting emotional strength. Your wife certainly can't get back the romantic feelings for you if you are whining and crying. She may pity you and not want to hurt you, but she can't FEEL (women go by feelings. get it?)for you.
You have to stop following YOUR feelings and use your male logic and reasoning.... If you have been paying attention to some of the other men struggling, you will notice that it is the ones who seem paralyzed and can't seem to wipe their **tts without asking someone on here what or how they should do it. That isn't very appealing to women and they can FEEL it without a word being said. Women are attuned to these things. Trust me on that.
The reality I have seen over and over and over with the men that seem to be good with women are the ones who are happy with life, seem to be going somewhere in their life, show an air of confidence, don't pursue women that are backed off and happily show they are going about their life.
Women are attracted to these types of men because they feel secure that he is "emotionally strong" and can handle whatever life throws at him, which triggers her feelings of security that he will protect her. She can't feel those things as much when he is chasing her and pursuing her and showing emotional weakness...
I agree 100%. That's the man I will be looking out for. gucci, what are men looking in a woman? Just curious...
The reality I have seen over and over and over with the men that seem to be good with women are the ones who are happy with life, seem to be going somewhere in their life, show an air of confidence, don't pursue women that are backed off and happily show they are going about their life.
Women are attracted to these types of men because they feel secure that he is "emotionally strong" and can handle whatever life throws at him, which triggers her feelings of security that he will protect her. She can't feel those things as much when he is chasing her and pursuing her and showing emotional weakness...
I agree 100%. That's the man I will be looking out for. gucci, what are men looking in a woman? Just curious...
The reality I have seen over and over and over with the men that seem to be good with women are the ones who are happy with life, seem to be going somewhere in their life, show an air of confidence, don't pursue women that are backed off and happily show they are going about their life.
Women are attracted to these types of men because they feel secure that he is "emotionally strong" and can handle whatever life throws at him, which triggers her feelings of security that he will protect her. She can't feel those things as much when he is chasing her and pursuing her and showing emotional weakness...
I agree 100%. That's the man I will be looking out for. gucci, what are men looking in a woman? Just curious...
Ditto
Let's start a new thread with this. You looking for what attracts a man? What makes a man lay his life down for you? What makes a woman fun to be around? What makes a incredible wife?
I think you can get lots of feedback. Then it's only fair the guys get to reverse the question.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Tristan - I've been reading along. Wish I had some advice! You're getting good stuff. Just know some other eyes are on you and hoping for the best! Feel free to embarrass yourself and others (men)!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Tristan - I've been reading along. Wish I had some advice! You're getting good stuff. Just know some other eyes are on you and hoping for the best! Feel free to embarrass yourself and others (men)!
So where is the new thread????
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
I'm heading out tonight for a fun filled weekend away with the kids. Don't know what W is doing and don't care (fake it til ya make it).
I do get sad at times during family stuff when we're all having a blast and I look to the left and to the right for the other person and they're not there. Wish me luck during the slow times when my mind is idle. Otherwise I will be having a blast...lots and lots of activities planned.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
