Stronger -
exactly - why does he have to be so negative? Who knows? (I find myself saying that a lot lately, if you notice!)

The point is, I don't have to be. I don't have to get sucked down into his pit of negativity.

You're so right. His choice to be negative is just that - his choice. Today I'm back upbeat and clinging to the positive!


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship