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Any drug that messes with serotonin levels or plays with your blood pressure, can and will mess with your sex drive.



Hey NO, yes . . . you are right. It would have to the serotonin, though, as I've been on BP meds for about 8 yrs and I never noticed any lowering of the drive.

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All that said, I don't mean to diminish the effect of rejection on your desire or willingness, rather just to inform.


Nor was your post taken to mean that. I will say that I do feel better all around: physically, mentally and emotionally. It struck as ironic, though, that level of desire now apparently matches that of my H. And here he's trying to increase his!!

As this morning as gone on and I've had time to think about H and his 'bullseye' I find myself looking forward to tonight more. I even printed out a red heart, wrote "Oooo, baby." on it and tied it to the dart. Thinking about it and letting the anticipation build is definitely a *good* thing.

Barbara

Domestic Abuse Survivor since 6/26/2002