If you want to talk to your son, go ahead and do that. But remember that he is still young and doesn't understand what it takes to be in a M. Have you gone out and done things for yourself?
If your son has been talking to your H, then the channel goes both ways. Let your son tell your H that you are happy and outgoing. Detach now or else it's going to eat you up.
Does he have OW?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.