Ok - here is my sitch and I'm not sure how to deal with this. My wife and I are sleeping in the same bed still. We've had our share of night's on the couch. At one point when my wife said she wanted to work on our marriage we moved back in to the same room. We've had periods of affection through out this. She would say I Love You, but mean it like I love in a platonic way. We have been intimate but my wife will say its only physical no emotion.I have felt her distance in this and it bothers me.
We also spend time together but I also know that she continues her E/A with OM. I've been doing the 180's the GAL's and etc. In fact last night I wen to a local D support group and didn't tell my wife where I was going. She asked and I said that it was really none of her business anymore. She asked about it a couple of times and then said. "You really went to the library didn't you?" I said no and she seemd to get a little hostile about it. So I guess what I'm asking is what should I do next. I am reaching the point where I'm thinking I should aske her to move out or move out myself. She seems to really like having me around for her but continues the E/A. any suggestions?
