I have ‘settled’ for the last 5 years; even before the Affair I was not happy but I did say “for better or worst”...
Doc I hear ya on this one.
I've just got my fingers crossed that when you truly detach, drop the rope, move out,move on etc that W soon relises what she is missimg and about to lose and pulls you back in.
In the meantime maybe it's time to "fill ya boots".
