I had anger prebomb 1, then alot of self blame bomb one, anger 6 months post bomb 1, then bomb 2 was filled with anger that lasted for about 7 months. Since then, anger days, lots of projection, but they are getting fewer and farther between. Yes, I too was in denial, whatever.... Since then, anger still but not so much directed at me. More at inanimate objects, and when at me, I simply do not accept any responsibility for it. Because I'm not.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
