Thanks Stronger, you're right...not a whole lot I can do while he's still away but just have fun and do my own thing (and quiet my little mind from thinking about all of this!)

You mention that the Gucci method is not 'for the faint of heart'. Is that b/c you really, really in your head need to be ready to walk away?

Gucci - would still love any additional thoughts in light of posts above. THANKS!! -hhh