I think you're right, she probably does but if his pattern holds true, then she will just be told she is wrong and will be left feeling even worse than before.

Truthfully, I don't know WHAT he thinks. I just know this is one of the things I find myself unable to handle and if there was ever a time that we were to move forward as a family, would have to change. Its a dealbreaker for me, but I can't change it either.

It just hurts my heart for her and in turn makes me hate and resent him for doing it to her. Which is not helpful. No matter what the outcome of our screwed up M situation is, this issue will need to be addressed because as his D0mos grows, so will the problem.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option