Kett - I have a medium heeled chunky, huarache-styled sandal that may do the trick... I'll try to find a pic but I have to run errands for work at present.
Re: expectations - this *did* just cross my mind - if he's really up and out for revenge, he'll pop me with D papers because I filed on our anniv. 2 years ago. But I'm *really* not getting that vibe at all.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137