Need help folks, Im sat here in tears again, my son has popped round and in his wisdom decided to try and make me see the light.. he is twenty one and has staying at his girlfriends house whilst she is home from uni, but comes home on monday.. obviously he is talking to his dad and more often than me, he doesnt get that I dont want to know what H is doing and is trying to make me see for my healing that I have to accept that my marriage is over and that H is not coming back, he is going to visit him next weekend so thats already dropped the information into my world that Im not going to see H next weekend as well.. I am distraught I love this man so much and he has just dropped out of my world completely. What do I do my son wants to come home but I cant cope with his "sh*t happens" attitude and "im not keeping secrets from you" attitude.. please folks I need advice how to handle all of this as Im not going to be able to hold it together if he carries on sabotaging me at every step!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!